Tuesday, December 30, 2014

High cost of drugs? This may be of help to some!

Recently, in an online group, a person was talking about the high cost of brand names drugs.  It is a fact that sometimes people require the brand name.  Precise concentrations, allergies, and other factors are contributions to this requirement.  Insurance programs do have a process for handling this requirement.  The Doctor's office must fill out a Prior-Authorization(PA) form.  Yet, this takes time and the patient needs the medication before the process can be complete. A few insurance companies will pay for a few days of the drug while this process is in the works.

Six hundred dollars a month is the cost this person is paying until the PA is complete. How many people can afford this alone? Those having children or family members with special needs(health conditions)? Or, along with paying insurance costs?  

I had to post some information.  Next year under the new law things may change.  This information is intended to help.   Please use the information if it helps.  BUT, remember to ALWAYS CHECK WITH YOUR HEALTH CARE PROVIDERS and realize things change.  Now that is said I pray this can alleviate some issues for some people.

I am cooking cookies and fighting a dog that wants them while writing this.





Sandie, our dog, helped herself to the cookie dough on the spatula!  Can I have a break on some spelling please? 

Back to the help with drug costs.  There are sites that can give you information on how to get Patient Assistance. I will provide a few. Usually the assistance comes from drug companies.  Besides these sites one can check with organizations such as Cancer Association of American, Leukemia Society and on and on.  

Income restrictions do apply.  That said, there are allowances to adjust the income.  Cost of total prescriptions, out of pocket insurance costs along with other reasons can help a person qualify for help.  Copay assistance is available also.

If you think only low income people can get aid with prescription costs, think again.  Many companies will pay for the copayment of a brand name drug.  Check online.  Type in the company that makes the drug or the brand name of the company.  Ask your pharmacist or doctor if he has any copayment cards.  Check online for Rx coupons.  There could be a one time deal.  The reason for this is to have a person try a drug before then given time for the patient to make budget considerations.

REMEMBER TO CHECK WITH HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS, THIS IS ONLY INFORMATION AIMED TO HELP IF POSSIBLE.  Liability is on yourself to check up to date information.  I mainly wish to provide help that some people may be unaware of.

Here are a few online sites.

           >>>https://www.rxhope.com     >>>http://rxoutreach.org  >>>http://www.healthfinder.gov/rxdrug/

           >>>http://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/patient-assistance-programs-for-prescription-drugs

           >>>http://rxassist.org/      >>>www.needymeds.org      >>https://www.pparx.org/ 

          >>>https://www.pparx.org/prescription.../co_payment_programs   

          >>>http://www.scbn.org/ (FOR UNINSURED ONLY)   >>>http://www.panfoundation.org

         >>>http://www.chelincoln.org/project_spotlight/health_360.html  >>>https://theassistancefund.org

        >>>http://www.patientadvocate.org/patient_services.php?p=751



RECALL I STATED A FEW COMPANIES PROVIDE PATIENT ASSISTANCE  and to try looking up there information?  Here are a few sites as examples.

   >>>http://www.pfizer.com/health/financial_assistance_programs/patient_assistance_programs

   >>>http://www.astrazeneca-us.com/medicines/help-affording-your-medicines

   >>>http://www.merckhelps.com/mpap/

HAVE INSURANCE AND THINK YOU ARE BEYOND THE DRUG HELP FOR COPAYS? Try or use these sites as examples to check copay cards.

   >>>http://www.mypfizerbrands.com/home?         source=google&HBX_PK=s_copay+card&o=111430894|284395621|0&skwid=43700005603470797

  >>>https://www.cellcept.com/copaycard

  >>>http://www.natlconsumersleague.org/health/106-prescription-drugs/768-ways-to-save-on-rx-meds-co-pay-cards-and-other-resources

RECOLLECT MENTIONING COUPONS? CHECK for your medication brand name specifically when looking for help.

   >>>http://www.freecopay.com/

  >>>http://www.goodrx.com/topamax

ASK FOR HELP.  Doctors, nurses and pharmacists may have the information you need.  Give them a break.  Focusing on your health issues and you the patient occupy a huge percent of the brain.  The desire to be correct comes before the price considerations.  Knowing the pharmacy side a little better, I suggest asking during a time when business is slower,  Saturday afternoons, Sunday afternoons and in the evening between 7 and say 8:30 are better to get the attention of a pharmacist for this type of question.  Please understand I expect all providers to do their jobs. I know however these times provide a break from the pressure of heavy work times.

Some organizations give prescription support also.  Here on some examples of links to try.

>>>http://www.cancer.org/treatment/findingandpayingfortreatment/managinginsuranceissues/prescriptiondrugassistanceprograms/prescription-drug-assistance-programs-toc

>>>http://www.lls.org/resourcecenter/helpfulorganizations/financialresources/insureddrugcosts/

Furthermore, seek out local agencies for guidance.  These organizations are there to serve the public.  Call the local Health Department, Department of Human Services and various other agencies.  

Going without medication can increase costs of healthcare for every person.  By giving you this information I hope it keeps a person out of the emergency room.  TRY NEVER TO GO WITHOUT MEDICATION.

I APOLOGIZE FOR REPEATING MY SELF ON THIS POINT.  THIS IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR MEDICAL ADVISE, INTENDED TO REPLACE YOUR PROVIDERS OR INDICATE SWITCHING MEDICATION AND ON AN ON.

Please let me know if this is helpful.  Leave a comment.  Do you like my writing?  Think this is a subject that needs to be written on more?  What are your needs for information?  


Thank you for your time.  

Saturday, December 27, 2014

La Jolla Beach San Diego

http://youtu.be/4Guf9JWzcO4

“I DID NOTHING WRONG!”

Divorce I declare on November 25th of this year.
“If you stay I will comply!” you said.
Will my age be 95 when this I see and hear?
“I did nothing wrong!” I get all this junk from your head.
Reasonable I planned to be.
Setting some words in pencil.
Even when inside I hadn’t a “Yippee.”
Glad these words were not set in stencil.
One day a week exercise with an Fitness Instructor.
Find a church and attend.
Two times a month on Sundays I direct.
Wednesday I penned.
Date night,
Family night, time,
Couples therapy I write.
Family counseling I chime.
Tanner, a prime consideration.
We each have our own page.
While we need to tune to the same station.
Seems to me I parent around your rages.
Judge me plenty in this marriage.
If you are a Christian and fill in plenty of blanks.
Can we find a carriage,
To carry us where God ranks and we give thanks?
Whose is this baby?
Was your reply to my telling you of my pregnancy.
What does that imply to me maybe?
Great way to start the gestation.
Your way or the highway,
Has been how it seems
Our marriage a flyby,
My behavior says to you. Blowing to smithereens.
I am not lily white.
Marriage takes two.
Perfection is a quest that people must hold.  Allright I did bite.
After a bit, I bet we both blew.
Attention you want.
Tis not Tanner you are for him to prosper.
Only wanting to flaunt.
Called it Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy and like a cosper.
No to church choir.
Hated my enrolling in swimming, karate and many other sports.
Attention you said I wished to acquire.
Forbid me to run for PTA President, threatening me for some reason you’d report.
The house was always yours in title.
Shuffling aside the promise to buy a new house once married.
I didn’t do this or that which was vital.
How I felt as if I’d been buried.
When will you be home?
You were late.
Where is my tomb?
Was I mistake but your love appeared as if hate.
Plenty on our plate, for sure,
We must do,
In finding a cure,
After saying “I do!”
Already, you have stated the fitness instructor you aren’t ready for.
I, in good faith, agreed to remain for three months and try.
Let us remember it isn’t war.
Hope and faith should keep us from cries and saying bye.
Your barter was to walk the dog,
With me two or three times a week,
For 15 minutes to 30 minutes, A fog
Was not your state of mind or your critique.
One day you proclaim,
If it is going to be like this,
We won’t be part of the marriage game.
I pray we can find bliss.
You think I keep bringing up the past,
Nagging without forgiving.
However, there is a contrast.
Purposely, getting at anger thrown out isn’t how I will be living.
I asked you to write down your wants and desires.
Of all things I haven’t forgotten God first is a must.
We must put out many fires while relighting a major fire.
A wind gust of marriage thrust is needed that we trust.
Remember, telling me I couldn’t take Tanner
By himself on a vacation.
One big banner,
Is that I can do this type of migration.
Our marriage has lots of problems.
I promise to convey,
My love and earnest,
Struggle to succeed.
God states anything is possible
Through Christ.
Thinking we agree on most of the doctrinal,
Principles from the bible, we must pay the price.
Forgetting and forgiving,
Yes, I concur,
Without misgivings.
If you and I finally understand each other without it being a blur.
God, with faith,
We pray and ask,
To hear what you saith.
Vowing to endure any task.

Monday, December 22, 2014

Kerina No Longer Accepts Exceptions Are Okay For All But Her! (Fiction)



Don't you love the rules should apply to you but not to others?
Kerina of late had decided no more accepting exceptions!  Get together's with family are often stressful and cause more muscle pain from tense muscles.
Yelling at Christmas,"SHUT UP!" was wrong.  However, apologies were made.  The reason for her yelling was to get across a tablet wasn't charging.  All that was being discussed had been tried.  At the end of the night the tablet still didn't charge.  Thus, the person doing the talking wasn't listening.  Nevertheless, yelling is socially unacceptable.
One Thanksgiving a bad habit was being discussed.  Kerina knows her field of study.  Kerina made a remark about nicotine and it being used as an insecticide with other information presented. The point was to help an individual undestand that nicotine still had some risks. 
Of course this person didn't want to hear it.  He screamed YOUR WRONG! Fathers back up sons.  Even though Kerina screamed NO YOU ARE WRONG, the father but brother to Kerina screamed again, YOUR WRONG.  Instead of looking up the material as both Kerina and her brother had been taught, Kerina is supposed to let it go.  There is something wrong with Kerina.  Never has an apology arisen out of this situation. 
Kerina, not feeling well missed a play where the tickets had been bought by a sister-in-law.  Kerina slept through the play.  Kerina's husband talked with her brother and explained the situation. Kerina didn't get up or do much until Sunday night about 10PM and then just checking email and Facebook.
Imagine her suprise when this message is on Facebook from  the sister-in-law, Tina, that bought the tickets to the play, 
  Message from Tina to Kerina on Facebook that night. "Tina, I really don't understand why you had me buy two tickets for   Frank's play. And, then didn't bother to call and let us know you weren't coming or call just to let us know when you are going to reimburse to me the cost of the tickets.  I did something nice for you and you do this...You may have problems to deal with but doesn't make it right how you treat people....right?  I won't make this mistake again.  Love, ya but am very disappointed.
Well, Kerina blocked Tina then and there from Facebook.  No longer will she deal with people that need their money back or don't stop to consider that Kerina was still sick or just getting over not feeling well.  Keinra texted her brother the informatioon intending to pay them back as soon as possible.  Here again Tina gets snippy.  She can't follow a text that explains Kerina wasn't up to details and assumed Tina and Harold would be stayint with their other brother.  Tina can't wait to point out Kerina is wrong.  
Tina finally realizes Kerina blocked her on FB.  She has Harold ask her today at 7:38am if Kerina did this.  Kerina didn't respond. 
Later that day Kerina arrives at the mother's house.  Kerina tells Harold yes I blocked her that day.  
Harold goes, "Well then you can block me from your shit too." Harold gets right in her face.  
Kerina complies.  Saying okay.  She follows through right then.  
Now during this her sister, Nancy, gets upset.  Kerina needs to let it go.  The family needs to start getting along.
Kerina has had it explaining that accepting these exceptions will no longer be a part of her life.  It was not okay for her to yell at the one Christmas.  Kerina apoligized.   
It is okay for the one person to shout "YOUR WRONG," and again be shouted by the father, "YOUR WRONG!"  NO effort is made to check on  who might be right.  Kerina must let it go.
Kerina again must accept exceptions for Tina's rudeness.  Kerina must forget that Tina could have waited and tried to understand the reasons behind missing a play.  Again, Kerina will no longer accept exceptions that seem to apply only for others.  
Life is short.  Yes.  Life is too short to deal with people that want to yell they are right without considering the possbility they might be wrong.  Life is too short to be around people that want to gripe and judge others.  
Kerina is much happier now.  

San Diego Mission Bells

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Autism, Asperger’s and Related Conditions from Jessica Kingsley Publishers
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Psychology Tomorrow Magazine
School Psychology

You know you have a child with Autism when

#autism #autism humor #autism Christmas #Asperger's #High Functioning Autism #ADD #ADHD #Christmas Celebration #learning disabilities God

I decided to feel in this blank and the results were so amazing I am posting my feel in the blank answer.

For the humor side of autism.....You Know you have a child with autism...when at Christmas you are thinking of renting a child to open presents

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Best teaching methods? Models? Results?

#education #education models #best teaching methods
http://thejournal.com/articles/2014/12/18/hybrid-classes-outlearn-traditional-classes.aspx

Goodbye Wayne!




From the A-Team Wednesday's Crew Preparing Grocery Sacks at Skyline Urban Ministries. Tell Carmack "Hello" for me. I am sorry I missed your Funeral Wayne.
A man that gave plenty to the community.

http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=J.-Beal&lc=2327&pid=172764528&mid=6153742

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Merry Christmas -N-Blessings 4 -2015

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESUS
REMIND US YOU ARE THE REASON FOR THE SEASON!

TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHAY

Bill with the babies: Sandie and Spike(Now in heaven)
 TANER WINNING FIRST PLACE IN 100 METER DASH SPECIAL OLYMPICS STILLWATER, OK
 MERYY CHRISTMAS
TANNER AT JUNIOR PROM 2014
 SUMMER 2014 VISTING BIG RED BARN ARCADIA, OK
 CELEBRATING TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHDAY
  CELEBRATING TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHDAY(FAVORITE AUNT TWILA MALLO)
  CELEBRATING TANNER'S 17TH BIRTHDAY


 TANNER ABOUT TO SIT FOR SENIOR PICTURES



Friday, December 12, 2014

Link to Reddit's Autism News

http://www.reddit.com/r/autism

Homemade Crafted Sensory Tunnell how to link

http://www.andnextcomesl.com/2014/12/homemade-sensory-tunnel.html

BLOG POST ON AUTISM AND CHRISTMAS GIFTS SEE LINK

http://fromabcstoacts.com/autism-friendly-christmas-gift-ideas

Autism Source Org

http://www.autismsource.org/

AUTISM NETWORK INTERNATIONAL

http://www.autismnetworkinternational.org/

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Link about Space Launch; How much contribution has been made to the space Program by Autism?

http://www.businessweek.com/articles/2014-12-02/nasas-orion-test-flight-gets-us-closer-to-mars
Visual and spatial strengths!!  Plus, repeated patterns...ability to see patterns..
*********Often been found that engineers run in families.....autism too.
How much do we owe to autism with regard to the Space Program?
******Remember Temple Grandin's Grandfather invented the auto pilot for planes!!

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Autism, Education, Social Services and more REsources

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My Drag Way Path to Divorce or Seperation?

Always in motion but this means no comotion.
Always in motion but this means no comotion.
 
Where to begin?  1986?  When I first felt I had fallen for my husband?  Our dating til 1993?  A marriage on the rocks?  A foundation I now realize was lacking but now understand was not on the sand as a wiseman builds his house?  The birth of my son that brought it all home?
I worked at the hospital where my husband did.  I was an Intern Pharmacy Student.   He was a Charge Pharmacist on the sixth floor. Seven years older, made him seem so stable, handsome, and ideal.
Our dating started after my work there had stopped.  I quit.  The dates continued.  Having work in common gave us plenty to talk about and discuss.
Assumptions are the killers.  A person goes to church every Sunday.  This doesn't mean he/she is perfect.  It doesn't make them better than you.  It may mean they try harder or they are only going through the motions.  Please don't quit going to church because of my comment.   I mention this because it was a trait I admired in my current husband.
If a person has a bunch of rules about when this are that can take place, how things must go and has little tolerance; RUN!!!  This only means as it appears to you.  For your perceptions are the only things you have to decide what you want in life, should run away from and embrass if you choose.
Disagreements are the norm.  However, each of you have a different life.  This is especially true if you both work. Therefore these little syptoms go ignored like many with the illness of cancer.  By the time you realize the differences are of concern; like cancer it is highly likely it could be terminal.
A child is born. The husband actually has the audacity to ask if it his child.  My gosh.  There has never been an indication of cheating; even til this day. In my case a special needs child with Autism, ADD, Auditory Processing Disorder, Ocular Motor Disfunction, Learning Disabilities and more on and on.  He is a child that is loved and wanted.  One parent is proactive and the other chooses to hide a head in the sand.  One person starts talking with ultimatums.
"You took him to the park?" Asks the husband.  "You might have had a heart attack!"
One one of the few times out after the birth of the child, a mother-in-law calls.  She asks the sister of the mom that is taking care of the child,"You took him to the park? What if he skins his knee?" The normal sister perks up and answers quickly right back, "He will survive like all the rest of the children in this world!"
Fights continue about how to care for the child.  At six months he is in the hospital.  The husband blames the wife.  Why did you take him to Baby Jymboree?  Your family is always kissing on him.  You don't wash your hands well enough.
Did this have anything to do with his special needs?  Did inducing labor a bit early cause it?  Is it your families genes?  Or, the other side?
As a mother one does the best she can.  The research to help her son leads down a dark realization that all the extra help needed is not always covered or seldom is, by health insurance.  The husband says this is unnecessary.  The mother continues and at least gets her child in preschool early.
Do you know what "Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy," is? Here is a definition, "Munchausen syndrome by proxy is a mental illness and a form of child abuse. The caretaker of a child, usually a mother, either makes up fake symptoms or causes real symptoms to make it look like the chld is sick." The husband says the wife has this.  He says she wants attention for what is wrong with the child?
Everything done by the wife seems to be wrong.  Arguments go on and on.  More details are not needed.  This is the parenting drama until November 25th, 2014.  While in a counseling session with my son's counselor and my husband, it is clear to me.  This will never end.  My son is distressed by his parents.  A divorce or seperation will mean clear concise rules for him.  This will mean no more back and forth between the parents.
Part of this is a child working two parents against another.  Playing parents against one another is something my husband says special needs kids don't do.  I know different.  The other part that is bad is listening to parents go back and forth round-n-round where the carousel will never stop.
This is the "Drag Way to my Divorce or Seperation."  I plan to execute a leave January 2015.  The trial will go through March.  I am leaning toward getting back together to be a one in a million shot.
Please feel free to comment and share your trials with me.  They may help me.
Too much damage done?  My son will be in his last semester  of high school.
My son is important to me but there is a saying that taking care of one's self is primary so caring for others can still happen.