Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Thursday, April 28, 2022

TOTAL EQUALITY?

               FIRST A DISCLAIMER THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION!!!😱


     Should Amber Heard be taken out of the future "Aquaman" movie? Do we really believe in equality for everyone?  Our society and the entertainment business should answer yes to this in my opinion!!

     Star Trek fans, me included, often state part of the attraction for this franchise relates to the justice and hope Gene Rodenberry creates here.  This means all species work together for betterment of society regardless of their differences.

     Extrapolate that back from the future to present day.  Human choices, race and other factors should start to mean no difference in how one is treated with consequences for all being the same.                                            

    Being treated the same requires one axiom to be adjusted, in my opinion, for those that have an equal understanding  of consequences.  This axiom or different rule should apply to those mentally or physically unable to comprehend or able to physically alter things so the equality can proceed.

     On a personal note, I  may not believe totally in my church's doctrine or that God sactions bisexual, homosexual or other close topics.  That may be my opinion.  Yet, here in the United States everyone is entitled to an opinion.  These rights never out weighs those of other people.  

     LET ME CLARIFY, my opinion that God doesn't sanction the above stated different sexual life choices, DOES NOT MEAN I THINK EVERYONE MUST AGREE WITH MY BELIEFS.  I really feel just the opposite, I can have my beliefs but also champion the right of others with different opinions.  As long as opinions or lifestyles conform to laws that are both  moral and ethical within our society's boundaries, then I am fine with these variations.

         ******Noteable exceptions dealing with above stated is where the definition of moral and ethical need to be changed.  A specific past example from history would be slavery.  In this instance those laws making it okay to own a person IS NEITHER MORAL OR ETHICAL.  Thus, if equality or other is broken by an existing law, it should be changed to correct for this.

     I always try to go back to the  Golden Rule.  Restated, ask yourself not if you agree with someone but if you were put in their  exact position ask "How would you desire to be treated?"  That means complete position of the other person and consequences.Thus, if you would want to be treated different because it is you in the same position, stop to think what is right.  The treatment or rights of people should not change for true equality.        (except when adjusting for people unable to comprehend or physically be able to compare compete.....I assume people get this).

     After watching and following the news of the Johnny Depp lawsuit, the "METOO MOVEMENT," and other such, if Amber Heard is found due to her article or its untruthfulness as responsible, then there should be like consequences.  

     If our society is to evolve holding equality for all as important and lawful; our society must apply laws the same.  Again, society must tweak this when applying standards to those with mental, intellectual or physical differences dictate such.

     My opinion is Heard should be dropped from the cast of the new "Aquaman" movie.  Again, this is my opinion with this post iseditorial in nature, just my thoughts and comments.

Saturday, December 27, 2014

“I DID NOTHING WRONG!”

Divorce I declare on November 25th of this year.
“If you stay I will comply!” you said.
Will my age be 95 when this I see and hear?
“I did nothing wrong!” I get all this junk from your head.
Reasonable I planned to be.
Setting some words in pencil.
Even when inside I hadn’t a “Yippee.”
Glad these words were not set in stencil.
One day a week exercise with an Fitness Instructor.
Find a church and attend.
Two times a month on Sundays I direct.
Wednesday I penned.
Date night,
Family night, time,
Couples therapy I write.
Family counseling I chime.
Tanner, a prime consideration.
We each have our own page.
While we need to tune to the same station.
Seems to me I parent around your rages.
Judge me plenty in this marriage.
If you are a Christian and fill in plenty of blanks.
Can we find a carriage,
To carry us where God ranks and we give thanks?
Whose is this baby?
Was your reply to my telling you of my pregnancy.
What does that imply to me maybe?
Great way to start the gestation.
Your way or the highway,
Has been how it seems
Our marriage a flyby,
My behavior says to you. Blowing to smithereens.
I am not lily white.
Marriage takes two.
Perfection is a quest that people must hold.  Allright I did bite.
After a bit, I bet we both blew.
Attention you want.
Tis not Tanner you are for him to prosper.
Only wanting to flaunt.
Called it Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy and like a cosper.
No to church choir.
Hated my enrolling in swimming, karate and many other sports.
Attention you said I wished to acquire.
Forbid me to run for PTA President, threatening me for some reason you’d report.
The house was always yours in title.
Shuffling aside the promise to buy a new house once married.
I didn’t do this or that which was vital.
How I felt as if I’d been buried.
When will you be home?
You were late.
Where is my tomb?
Was I mistake but your love appeared as if hate.
Plenty on our plate, for sure,
We must do,
In finding a cure,
After saying “I do!”
Already, you have stated the fitness instructor you aren’t ready for.
I, in good faith, agreed to remain for three months and try.
Let us remember it isn’t war.
Hope and faith should keep us from cries and saying bye.
Your barter was to walk the dog,
With me two or three times a week,
For 15 minutes to 30 minutes, A fog
Was not your state of mind or your critique.
One day you proclaim,
If it is going to be like this,
We won’t be part of the marriage game.
I pray we can find bliss.
You think I keep bringing up the past,
Nagging without forgiving.
However, there is a contrast.
Purposely, getting at anger thrown out isn’t how I will be living.
I asked you to write down your wants and desires.
Of all things I haven’t forgotten God first is a must.
We must put out many fires while relighting a major fire.
A wind gust of marriage thrust is needed that we trust.
Remember, telling me I couldn’t take Tanner
By himself on a vacation.
One big banner,
Is that I can do this type of migration.
Our marriage has lots of problems.
I promise to convey,
My love and earnest,
Struggle to succeed.
God states anything is possible
Through Christ.
Thinking we agree on most of the doctrinal,
Principles from the bible, we must pay the price.
Forgetting and forgiving,
Yes, I concur,
Without misgivings.
If you and I finally understand each other without it being a blur.
God, with faith,
We pray and ask,
To hear what you saith.
Vowing to endure any task.